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You don’t drown by falling in the water; you drown by staying there. – Edwin Louis Cole
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Haters and Critics: How to Deal with People Judging You and Your Work
t doesn’t matter how you choose to live your life — whether you build a business or work a corporate job; have children or choose not to have children; travel the world or live in the same town all of your life; go to the gym 5 times a week or sit on the couch every night — whatever you do, someone will judge you for it.
For one reason or another, someone will find a reason to project their insecurities, their negativity, and their fears onto you and your life, and you’ll have to deal with it.
With that in mind, let’s talk about being judged and criticized. And just for fun, I’ll share some of the most hateful comments I’ve received on my articles. And more importantly, the strategies I use to deal with them.
Here’s what I’ve learned about dealing with the people who judge you, your work, and your goals.
How to Respond to Haters
Most people need love and acceptance a lot more than they need advice.
—Bob Goff
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How Letting Go Saves You from Procrastination
Imagine a world where procrastination doesn’t exist.
People won’t feel stressed, overwhelmed or upset just by looking at their tasks for the day.
No one would complain about, analyze, fear or put off what needs to be done. They will just do it. By simply starting, being focused, doing a small part of it, and then the next one.
Then many more people would be successful. Many books would have been finished and published. Many goals would have been achieved and dreams – come true.
But that’s not the world we live in.
Although it might be.
We let procrastination – the desire to do anything else but the important task in front of us – control us.
It leads us to dark places, where we feel hopeless. We turn to distractions, face fear and anxiety, we don’t feel happy, we think and analyze too much and never…
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Short emotional touching story
An old man took his phone to a repair shop.He was told nothing was wrong with his phone. He responds ‘Then why don’t my kids ever call me?
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Day 356 – trinkets
From buddha’s to owls, a few photos of statues and trinkets that I have snapped whilst strolling around Japanese gardens and temples.
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What is the sound of thousands of Indians rolling their eyes?
This evening sitting in traffic, suffocated by a furious heat, I listened to the news on the radio. There is something odd about being alone in the bubble of your car, right next to someone else in their bubble, both of you listening to the same thing at the same moment. A shared experience expressed privately. As I learned of the identity of the alleged private developers who grabbed the playground of Langata Primary School, I joined thousands of other brown people in Nairobi snorting in their own air conditioned bubbles.
This was my inner monologue.
Seriously? Come on guys. Do they really have to be Indian!? Great. As if suffering through Brother Paul/Pattni wasn’t enough. Why do you need to go out and add another nail to the coffin that is ‘Indians are thieves and stealing this country.’ That’s like a Luhya going…
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